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6 Ways To Get Back From A SetBack

At some point in our lives, we experience certain setbacks whether in our career, academically, physically, to mention but few.

This feeling of being in a rut is not one that anybody enjoys, which is why we constantly look for ways to get back up after life might have thrown us some lemons at us.

For today's post I have put together five  (5) things to do in order to recover from setbacks.

1) Let Go: This is fast becoming one of my favourite mantras. Holding on to whatever might have caused you to be in that position will only do more damage because you'll keep gutting , worrying, complaining. That whole negative vibe is way too dangerous for your psychological stability. Letting go however releases you of the worry because then its not your problem anymore. A feeling of rest and inner peace replaces the initial stress.

2) Let it Out: Letting go is most times very difficult and it takes sometime. In the process of letting go, you have to let it out because one cannot work wi…


Hey Guys!

I hope you're having an amazing day? So I recently came across this tag on Tobi's blog Journalthreesixty and I absolutely loved her answers. This tag is basically a way of getting to know me better even if some of the questions are a little uncomfortable 😨😨. Since It was an open tag, I decided to join in the fun!
As you might have seen, there are 50 questions so I suggest you grab your popcorn and sit tight!

Here goes...

1)What are you wearing?
 Shorts and a purple top

2)Ever been in love?
I think so

3)Ever had a terrible breakup
Bad: Yes     Terrible: No

4)How tall are you?
3ft/4ft something… never really paid attention to the specifics for obvious reasons.

5)How much do you weigh?
Not much at all…lol you should see me. πŸ˜†

6)Any tattoos?

7)Any piercings?
No. I had stud stickers one time though.

8)OTP (one true pairing: what’s your favorite fictional couple)?
Hazel Grace and Gus (the fault in our stars)

9)Favorite show?
That’s a tough one but I’ll go with Being …

GirlschatSeries 17|| Let's Talk About Birth Order and Dating

So I was literally on my bed when this post idea popped in my head (I really dont know why!). Yeah It was a little disoriented but I knew what I wanted to write so i turned to my third best friend Google and everything started to really make sense. I hope it will make sense to You too😊

I hope you're all doing well this beautiful thursday evening? As for me, I think I've seen better days. I had to remove a decayed tooth yesterday,
Moral Lesson: I never want to do it again!. it's really not a pleasant experience. However, #Girlschat is here and that makes me happy.

How many of us have heard statements like  you're dating a 'mommy's boy' just because you're dating the youngest child or perhaps because you're dating the first son people tell you to get ready for a lot of responsibilities and if you happen to be a first child too then the load is even more. I remember when i was dating an only child, a friend told me I was lucky because there's no…

GirlSchat series 16 || 3 TV Series Every Girl Should be Hooked On

Hello Lovelies!

How are you today? Great I hope. Let me first say that I really appreciate everyone who reached out and checked on me last week, thank you so much I'm better now. For those who would have not didn't know, don't worry i know you have good intentions tooπŸ˜‰ so it's all good.

Having said that, I welcome you to another exciting Girlschat Thursday!
This week we'll be looking at movies. Yaaay! If you didn't know, I looove movies especially series and if you haven't checked out my post on the top 10 tv series, then you should defiitely check Here ! I can assure you that it's a good pick although I'd have to make another list soon.

Alright! For today's post, I have put together 3 TV series that I think that all ladies/women should be hooked on. Reason being that, there are some really powerful female characters that we could pick up a few lessons from. My love for these characters is not because they're flawless in terms of makeup an…

GirlschatSeries 15 || What is the worst pick-up line that has been used on you?

Hello Queens!

How are you guys doing? Better than I am, I'm sure. So Malaria decided to play a kind of game with me today, I'm not sure why though. I almost thought I won't be able to post today, but I needed some ginger and good laughter in my system and voila! Here we are.

Today's topic is basically just for laughs. We are talking about the worst pick up lines that have been used on us by these "wonderful" guys.

See what some ladies had to say...

Abiola said : "You better date me
You'll see guys that make sense you wont date them, its somebody that will be making you cry you'll be going for.
He even went as far as sending me that meme of "find someone that ruins your lipstick not your mascara"

Tosin said : "I'm asking you out because I asked someone else out but she said no"

Fikky said: "It's like i know you somewhere, Some will even use bad english to ask..
Posh guys dont do that though, Only skolombo boys say all…

"Diary Of A Cross Corper"

Hey Guys!

So this is one very overdue post and I apologise for taking so long but thank God it's finally here! How y'all doing? Personally I feel like I need a vacation where I can just sleep, eat and pamper myself. Oh well if wishes were horses...

Life as a cross corper wasn't exactly rosy but I must say it was better than alright. If you missed my camp experience you can check Here ! Life on camp wasn't one I loved very much, but my experience in boarding school taught me a thing or two which I was able to apply in the orientation Camp.

I remember the day I was given my kit, I just looked at it and smiled. My Khaki was 10 times bigger than me and I had to remove more than half of the whole thing just to get my size. To think that I paid 1500 for each piece of clothing, those mami market people were legit scammers😩 that's why you need to be loaded to an extent when you're going to camp. I was initially posted to one village that I could hardly pronounce the …

GirlschatSeries 14 || What Seals The Deal For You?

Hey Lovelies,

How was you day? Superb I'm sure😊
Welcome to another #Girlschat. Last week's topic really garnered a lot of comments both on instagram and on the blog. I mean I got to really feel the pain of some ladies😧 but it was amazing to see a lot of people were willing to share their stories. Thank you guys! You rock!

So you know the other time we talked about  deal breakers ,we had a good laugh and we also learned a lot, today I decided to go with the opposite. After searching Google for the opposite of "deal breakers" and seeing some funny things I decided to settle with "deal sealers" even though it still sounds funny. You get the point though.

I asked a few ladies about what seals the deal for them and I got really wonderful answers.

Here goes...

Moyin said: To seal the deal you have to be smart, in the sense that I need to be able to have have intelligent conversations, I need to be able to connect with you on a very friendly level before I sta…