This is one post that has been in my drafts for a very long time now, why haven't I posted it you might ask? I wanted it to be as realistic, relatable and ready as possible (You can call it the 3R's 😏, okay bad joke, lol). Now that I finally got around completing it, I decided it was ready enough to be shared with you guys!

As a 90's kid, majority of the people I hang out with are in their 20's- early, middle or late are all included, so it's no mistake that I'm writing a post for us! Personally, I think our 20's are the years a lot of personal, life changing decisions are made, I like to call it the formative years.

I'm no expert in these things, but I bet you al knew that already, didn't you? However, I like to share my own opinion on certain matters. So from mide's (that's me! 😊) point of view, here are 20 things to do in your 20's!

1) Find Who You Are and Live Up To It: Discovering yourself and your purpose is something you have t…

RELATIONSHIP TALKS || Checking Your Partner's Phone; Right Or Wrong? Why?

So I was checking through my post schedule and titles, and I realized that my dearest 'relationship question and answer' segment has been missing for a while, so this is me officially welcoming you to another juicy session πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰ 

Today's title is one that is quite controversial as you might have seen, nevertheless, I had an amazing time asking my friends and reading their replies. For everyone who answered me, thank you so muchπŸ’• (even the ones who didn't want me to snitch on them, but I still did though😊)

Okay! That said,

Question of the day: Checking your partner's phone; right or wrong? Why?

Take a look at what they said...

Toluwani said: "It's wrongπŸ˜„, I feel checking your partner's phone is a big sign of lack of trust, and would advice any single that if you feel you have to check your partner's phone, then there is something not right in that relationship, please don't continue... For the ladies abeg, if he is constantly checking and m…

#mondayinspiration || 8 Success Principles + Giveaway Winners!

So I'm currently reading this book 'How to Get From Where You Are To Where You Want To Be' by Jack Canfield, and it's a real gem I must confess, by the time you're reading it, you will begin to realize how you much you still have left to do in order to live the life of your dreams.

You guys already know I'm a nice person, that's why I've decided to share some lessons that I've learned so far. Also I'll be announcing the giveaway winners later in the post, so stick around! πŸ˜‰

There are certain principles of success that we need to apply in our lives daily that will take us closer to dreams by the minute.

Here goes...

1) Take 100% Responsibility For Your Life: I mean, it's yours afterall. There is only one person responsible for the quality of the life you live and that person is you. For you to be successful in life, you have to take full responsibility for everything that you experience: be it your level of achievements, the kind of relation…


Last year december, I wrote a post on my holiday wishlist , and I had about 5 items present in that list. Now I had just written with the belief that somehow I would get them. Amongst the first three items in my wishlist were 'The smart money woman' and the 'Cassiedaves Blog Planner' and since I wasn't too 'rich' at the time to get these items, I resorted into giveaways.

Everywhere that I saw people giving out any of these two things, I always participated. At some point, I stopped limiting my chances to the 'cassiedaves' brand but any form of planner or goal book that could just aid my productivity.

Okay enough long story, you guys already know I won the ' Smart money woman ' , and now I also won the 'goaldigger' goal book by Adebola Idowu through the Sekinat Sanni giveaway. (No jazz here people! It's just favour πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚)

My post today is not to gloat about my winnings as it may have seemed😊 but to tell you the importance of hav…


Let me first say that I'm soo sorry that 'Style Personality' hasn't up in a very long while now. Honestly I was even going to stop the segment because it just wasn't working out the way I planned it to be, but hey that's life!

However, I'm so grateful that it's up and running at least for now, I've decided that I would do it however it comes because the monthly thing wasn't doing it for me at all. I hope you guys understand? Please do, thank you πŸ™πŸ™

Today we have the very beautiful and stylish Mariah as our style personality! Yaay! Mariah is a very pleasant person and when I reached out to her for this, I was very impressed, she's honestly very amazing and has a great sense of style. Today we are talking about her style, her brand and everything in between.

Take a look!

A: Hi, can you please introduce yourself?

M: I am Toye Maria oluwadamilola by name but also known as Mariahgorati

A: Style has a wide range of meaning to different people,…


Happy New Month Guys!
How was May? 
I think it was fast for me and I achieved a little of what I wanted to do, and I won a giveaway too, yaay! I'm also hosting mine here on the blog  (click here for details), so it was a good month overall, we thank God.
Welcome to the month of June, may all your expectations be met by God's grace!

So today's post is one of the very popular trends amongst bloggers, and I've wanted to 'jump on it' for a while now. It's very similar to the Currently I am post and equally fun. 
Subsequently, I'll be interchanging them, so get ready!
Here goes;
Taking: One step at a time and hoping that in due time, everything will work out for good.

Learning: French and becoming somewhat good at it! My Teacher told me I have a good french diction but I'm not so confident when I'm speaking it, true though. I'm always shy😝
Reading: Too many books at the same time; 'Wonder' by R.J. Palacio, 'A mother's hope' by …

#mondayinspiration || 3P's of Purpose + Giveaway!

Fufilling purpose in this journey of life is something that is extremely important to out existence and as such, we have to take it very seriously. A person without a purpose is merely existing without actually living because there is no drive, no zeal, no intent whatsoever, such person is just 'there'.

Today's #mondayinspiration post brings to you what I call the 3P's of Purpose. During Sunday school sometime ago, we talked about it and it crossed my mind again so I thought to share with you guys!

How was your weekend? Mine was Turnt! I attended a youth programme where we talked about creativity unleashed (story for another day) and it was amazing, I was so glad to be part of it.

Let me also use this opportunity to say Ramadan Kareem to all my Muslim friends and readers πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰
May God answer all our prayers.

Having said that, The 3P's of Purpose;

1) Potential: Everybody has one or more in-built abilities, talents, gifts, etc that we have been given. Discovering the…