Hey Cheater,

"The person you love (or used to love) was always bound to hurt you, it's sadly a fact of life and we all do it to each other. However, we can become better at solving our relationship problems by taking responsibility for ourselves."- Ellie Prior

Hi guys, How are you and how has your week been so far? Mine was alright thanks for asking, I'm just glad it's the weekend baby! ;)
Okay, so if you are very frequent on social media, you would know that it was buzzing with drama this past week and if you didn't know let me fill you in (you know I like to gist very well). Apparently ice prince's girlfriend went on instagram to declare her undying love for him blah blah and then the trolls came for her in way she never 'hesperred'. 

One person commented and was like but she's dating one Akin so why she lying and then this person had no chill o, he started releasing pictures that showed that the girl and the Akin were together.
Bottom line Ice Prince refused to believe and he stood by his girl all through that people started to think they've "jazzed" him.

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Now this made me wonder why exactly do people cheat in their relationships? I mean it's already so normal to the extent that people are used to it.

After ransacking everywhere I could,I found some reasons. Professor Helen Fisher who is a biological anthropologist is of the opinion that it could be as a result of how the brain works. She said there are 3 circuits in the brain; one for lust (testosterone), one for attachment (oxytocin), one for romantic love (dopamine).
I'm sure some people are happy that there's something they can at least blame when they are caught, *in jenifa's voice* I pirri you. 

Moving on, what I can deduce from this is that you can be very much romantically in love with your partner while you want to be involved in sexual relations with another person and also you just feel really attached to someone else, someone you can't really do without. This is why some people claim to be in love with more than one person at a time.
Whatever the reason is, infidelity can break the strongest of relationships and what does it leave behind? anger,betrayal and guilt. For some it takes a long while before they recover and they just keep asking 'why'

Cheating or infidelity can come in different ways; emotional, one night stands, internet relationships including 'sexting', financial  infidelity and a host of others.
Sometimes we do these things without really thinking how it'll affect our partners, remember it's everyday for the thief,one day for the owner. 

A relationship can never be perfect, and so if you see behaviours that might likely push you out then try to talk to your partner, you know communication is key, think of the best way your partner will understand you and speak that language.
Think of how you'll feel if you were the one that was cheated on and hold back.

"Infidelity is crippling"- Weiner Davis
Don't be the reason why the relationship you invested so much in is crumbling.
Have a beautiful weekend and don't dull yourself.♡♡♡
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P.s- don't forget to check here on Monday for your #mondayinspiration 


Sources: professional-counselling.com
www.relate.org.uk
tipsonlifeandlove.com
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  1. Nice one aramide πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  2. @aramide, thanks for being my life coach. But Yorubad boys ... been breaking hearts since 1400s.

    Anyway, most of us think we are in a relationship when we are not. Der is someone I like to talk to almost every hour but I don't think she likes the same thing. She won't even flash/call me or text till I do.

    I think everyone is guilty, you must have cheated on that partner in one way or the other. It's not until you have some sexual feeling for someone else. If you don't call your partner more often as you call your bestie, you have cheated, you don't understand what communication has to do with your relationship, hence you're a fool πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    If you're dating a Yorubad boy and you think he's cheating. Move on to next Yorubad boy till you find a faitful Yorubad boy πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. Lol..if you say so,thanks for reading

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    2. Lol..if you say so,thanks for reading

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