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RELATIONSHIP TALKS || Checking Your Partner's Phone; Right Or Wrong? Why?

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So I was checking through my post schedule and titles, and I realized that my dearest 'relationship question and answer' segment has been missing for a while, so this is me officially welcoming you to another juicy session πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰  Today's title is one that is quite controversial as you might have seen, nevertheless, I had an amazing time asking my friends and reading their replies. For everyone who answered me, thank you so muchπŸ’• (even the ones who didn't want me to snitch on them, but I still did though😊) Okay! That said, Question of the day: Checking your partner's phone; right or wrong? Why? Take a look at what they said... Toluwani said: "It's wrongπŸ˜„, I feel checking your partner's phone is a big sign of lack of trust, and would advice any single that if you feel you have to check your partner's phone, then there is something not right in that relationship, please don't continue... For the ladies abeg, if he is constantly ...

Girlschaseries 18 || 6 Life Lessons From "On Becoming" For All Women

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Hey Lovelies! Happy New month! 2016 is gradually coming to an end, can you believe it? I pray that we shall all see the end of this year and enter into the new year by his grace. Welcome to another #Girlschat. Thank you for always keeping it a date with Danie and I, we really appreciate you guys. Now to the business of the day. If you're in Nigeria, I'm sure you would heard that media personality, Toke Makinwa recently launched her Book "On Becoming", I never really expected to get my hands on it fast as I did but I'm glad I was able to read it. "On Becoming" is one of those books that you read and you just want other people to know about it. For today's post, I decided to draw out a few lessons that I learned while reading. This book is what I call an awakening and honestly as girls/ladies/women, we need to stay woke! We owe ourselves that much. Here goes.. 1) Guard Your Heart Jealously : You know why? Because at the end if it goes ...

Dear Future Husband,

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Dear Future Husband, Get comfy because this is one long letter. Don't worry i won't start writing the lyrics of Meghan Trainor's "Dear Future Husband", but I actually think there are a few things we could pick up from that song you know? We'll get to that in a bit. So I'm guessing that you're probably single like me or in a relationship with a girl you think will be your forever, I mean the caretaker can only do so much, but the landlord owns the house so goodluck with that because,I'll be waiting for you. Writing this letter is both heartwarming and scary at the same time. Scary because the thought of going on this forever journey is quite a lot to down but heartwarming because I know that you'll be by my side through it all. Before we get to the point where we have to talk about suits, dresses, location, etc there are some things that I just want to let you know which I'm hoping would make our marriage a beautiful one. It...

To Have And To Hold?

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Hey Guys! How's your Friday going? I had a really long nap which is why I'm posting at this time, I think I'll say my Friday is going wonderfully wellπŸ˜‰ So some days ago at work, we were discussing about some particular marriage cases, ( this actually contributes a large percentage of cases we receive every week) and I didn't know when I brought out my pen and book and started taking notes, I actually mentally laughed at myself. #thingsonlybloggersunderstand One woman came and said she wanted a divorce after just being married for 8 months. We were shocked but it's obviously not our business, so we told her that Our Commission cannot dissolve the marriage and that it's the court's duty but if the man had been abusing her in any way then, we would be able to come in. The person who was interrogating her asked her why she wanted the divorce? She said it was based on infertility on the side of the man. He didn't say till they got married and he...