WHO ARE YOU?
Anyway so we know your name,title and all but I'm still asking who are you? (My wahala is plenty yeah?lol). With each passing day we are on a journey of discovering ourselves. For some, it'll be relatively easy but for others it won't be funny(everybody's head is not the same abi?)now this doesn't mean you should give up and become one of those people who are just satisfied with where they are without even attempting to break the rock to take their honey. It might not be easy but it will be worth it eventually.The thing is you need to know who you are because that's how you will be perceived and treated by other people and if you're unsure probably because of the lack of confidence in yourself, you'll realize you're becoming what people want you to be and not your own person.
You need to be YOU! Under no condition should you compromise who you are for what 'they' (everyone else)want you to be because in the end it'll be 'had I known?(this won't be our portion) I'm also aware of the serious pressures that come from family,friends,etc some of which we can't even escape. In cases like this, if we rely on our own understanding we'll definitely go wrong which is why you can't separate the spiritual from this journey of your life.